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My husband and I have been married for
almost seven years now and with two young boys, at time I feel like we've done
it all. However, after a little thought and Yahoo Google I realized that there
are many more date that we can experience together. Last year for Christmas I
gifted my husband with a one year of pre-planned and most importantly pre-paid
for dates (Date Night 2011). He was so excited! With a little thought and
commitment a date at least twice a month was no longer as impossible as it once
seemed.
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Date Nights You’ll Both
Enjoy:
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Pick up the ingredients you need to create a fabulous meal at the
grocery store and then return home and cook it together.
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Throw a slumber party for two. Have dinner in bed and have each
other for dessert.
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Plan a movie night. Rent a flick that you’ll BOTH enjoy,
make popcorn, and get cozy under the blanket on the couch.
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Go for a hike or long walk together.
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Get coffee at your favorite coffee house and just talk to one
another.
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Swim, lounge, and enjoy a day at the beach or pool.
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Go to a theme park and clutch each other on the scary rides.
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Perform a duet at a karaoke bar.
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If you’re adventure seekers, you can go skydiving together.
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Head to the zoo or museum. Stroll through the exhibits, hold
hands, and comment on what you see and learn.
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Attend a concert and sing out loud to one another. Rocking out –
even if you’re more Beethoven than Bon Jovi – is a great stress reliever.
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Take a sculpting or drawing class together. Or go to one of those
stores where you can paint pottery. Your art will give your beloved a new
window into your personality.
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Miniature golf, bowling, pool, or the arcade is always great for
some old-fashioned fun and friendly competition.
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Take a Sleigh ride on a brisk fall or winter evening; pack a snack
with hot coffee or coco.
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Flowers are an eternal symbol of romance. Head to the botanical
gardens and learn all about them together.
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Take a road trip to the city if you live in the country or to the
country if you live in the city. Find a romantic Bed and breakfast to lodge in.
Budget Friendly Date Nights
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Make homemade pizza
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Check out the local entertainment at a bar, festival, concert in
the park.
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Pick or Catch up on a TV series and rent or view on Netflix $10
mo. Subscription or free trial here (link)
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Head out to the Dollar Theater and splurge on snacks. We normally
wash two or three movies that we’ve been waiting to see.
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Try brunch and a matinee; fancy restaurants are way more
affordable in the a.m.
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Order up a bucket of fried chicken and head for a drive-in if
still available in your city.
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Dress up your backyard picnic table with a white tablecloth. Add
candles or lights, fancy cheese, chocolate and voila: five-star fun!
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Too cold or wet for an outdoor picnic? Spread a blanket on the
floor and have a carpet picnic. (We did this with the kids and everyone had a
blast!)
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Find a happy hour half off appetizers and order a few for your
dinner!
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Grab a basketball and hit the free courts at the park.
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Sample international or even local food at a city or state fair.
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Go to the library and page through the coffee-table art books, or
any books!
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Suit up and spend a late afternoon at the indoor pool of the Y.
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Head to the highest point in town. Spend an early evening watching
the twinkling lights turn on.
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Drive out to a country field or park, lie down and snuggle under
the stars.
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Take a tour of the house you'd (someday) love to own.
Creative Date Night Ideas:
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Paint coffee mugs at a paint-your-own-pottery place.
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Get outdoors on a cool windy day and fly a kite.
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Find a BYOB Painting Class! So much fun!
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Sign up for a message class.
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Go out for a night of Salsa dancing
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Hit a farmers' market and scavenge for your dinner.
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Get an easy-to-operate remote-control plane, go to a park and take
turns trying to avoid the trees.
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Take a hayride.
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Hit a flea market and shop interesting finds.
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Take a tour of garage sales in the ritziest neighborhoods.
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Don't you just drive each other up the wall sometimes? Prove it —
at an indoor climbing gym.
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Head to an ice skating rink and strap on skates for some icy fun.
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Poke around an antique shop.
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Ride the Ferris wheel at a local carnival.
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Find a fountain and throw in 10 pennies, taking turns making
wishes.
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Write a poem together. Find a creative way to display it, frame
it, and exhibit it in your home.
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Stop at a fancy bakery and pick out a treat for each other.
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Cook together or take a cooking class.
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Hold a kiss for one elevator ride. (Even if someone else is riding
along)
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Get up early or stay up all night, to watch the sunrise.
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Climb a tree together.
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Head to a batting cage and swing at some balls.
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Hit the bowling alley.
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Get in the saddle for a horseback-riding lesson.
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Hit up a sports bar and cheer on the team…He’ll love you for this
if he/she is a sports fanatic.
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Map out a long bike ride through a local park.
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Fire up the grill for burgers and sticky s'mores.
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Play paintball.
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Check out the action at the nearest racetrack.
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Take a trip to the golf-ball driving range.
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Work out your aggression with some co-kickboxing.
Mini Weekend Getaways ($$$!):
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Book a double massage at a spa.
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Take a balloon or helicopter ride over your town.
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Rent a fancy car. Tool around as if you actually own it.
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Find a nearby bed-and-breakfast. Spend the night someplace where
someone else makes the bed and cooks breakfast.
Special Touches that with Add
to Your Date Night Experience:
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Write a quick love note on the bathroom mirror. (we've done this a
few times…just make sure it’s not permanent marker)
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Use sticky notes around the house to say a quick I love you!
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Stick a napkin note in spouse’s lunch (works if your spouse takes
a lunch to work)!
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Write an encouraging, sweet, short (or steamy) email or text
during the day. (double check the number)
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Hold hands whenever you can. We sometimes forget this simple
notion of affection.
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Make breakfast for him/her (or with him/her) on Saturday or Sunday
morning
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Surprise him/her with a new shirt or something you'll know he'll
enjoy (a new book perhaps)
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Plan a date and take him/her out!
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Use chivalry...Which is not only for men…Ladies…Say your please
and thank you's! My husband and I are in the habit of saying yes mam and yes
sir to each other sometimes, because of our kids saying it! Don’t forget to
open and close her door….